mysqlnd: error message is inappropriate in some cases #11950

Description

This is an issue I noticed while working on this fix.
#11912

This line sets the CR_MALFORMED_PACKET error.

However, the CR_SERVER_GONE_ERROR error may already be set at this point.

Therefore, a CR_MALFORMED_PACKET error is output when an CR_SERVER_GONE_ERROR error should be output.

Fatal error: Uncaught mysqli_sql_exception: Malformed packet in /var/www/html/test/test.php:11

I get the following error message in the same situation when building with libmysqlclient :

Fatal error: Uncaught mysqli_sql_exception: Lost connection to MySQL server during query in /var/www/html/test/test.php:11

The code to reproduce:

<?php

$driver = new mysqli_driver();
$driver->report_mode = MYSQLI_REPORT_ERROR|MYSQLI_REPORT_STRICT;

$mysqli = new mysqli("mysql", "root", "", "test"); // my env 

fgets(STDIN);
// Restarted mysql, then press enter

var_dump($mysqli->select_db("test2"));

PHP Version

PHP 8.0+

Operating System

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